A three-person orbit is where one man is at the center, receiving and giving energy simultaneously. In Taoist and tantric terms, this can become a dynamic, healing flow of sexual energy transmutation.
🔁 The Energetic Figure-8 in an MMM or MFM Configuration
Roles:
Man A (center): Being penetrated (by his male lover), and simultaneously penetrating (his girlfriend or boyfriend)
Man B (lover): Penetrating Man A from behind
Man or Woman C (boyfriend or girlfriend): Being penetrated by Man A from the front
🔄 Energy Flow Possibility:
This can create a three-person circuit, almost like a loop of yin-yang-yin polarity, where energy is given and received in a balanced way:
Man B → sends energy forward through his thrusts and breath into Man A’s root (perineum/anus)
Man A receives that energy, breathes it up his spine, exhales it down the front of his body into his penis
That energy then moves into Woman C’s womb space or Man C’s root and heart via the connection
Their breath and arousal can complete the loop, either by:
Sending energy back through her heart to Man A, or
Breathing energy down to the base, which Man B can absorb again
The entire trio becomes a living orbit—a moving field of connected arousal and subtle awareness. It can be deeply orgasmic without ejaculation, especially for the person in the middle, who becomes both conduit and container.
🌀 Suggestions for Practice
Synchronize breath first (start slow, eyes closed or open, tune in)
Keep movement slow—almost like rocking, pulsing, or flowing
Center the practice around the middle person’s breath and awareness
Encourage sound, sighs, moans, or mantra to help circulate energy
Let go of goal or climax—focus on connection, flow, and depth
💬 What the Man in The Middle Could Say to His Partners:
“I’d love to try something sensual with both of you that’s not about me ‘finishing,’ but about us feeling energy between us. I’ve had trouble climaxing, but I think I can feel something more full-bodied with both of you connected to me like this. Would you explore that with me?”
If spoken vulnerably and with confidence, most partners—especially those who love and care for him—will be honored to co-create that three-person orbit!